Tuesday, July 27, 2010

A Miracle in the Making...

There's our lil' squirt at 11 weeks and 5 days! I needed to hear that precious heartbeat just one more time before I actually put it in writing. We went this morning to the doctor...I have to go to the high risk docs now, because I'm old :( but Baby #2 seems to be doing great so far!

I just put it on Facebook, which is like the equivalent of the ticker running across the bottom of the screen on CNN, so I guess it's official now. ha!

Jimmy and I found out on June 7th, my first day of teaching VBS. I was suspicious and hopeful, but after a day of standing on chairs, hanging things from the ceiling and pushing tables all over tarnation in order to transform our Fellowship Hall at church into an Under the Sea extravaganza, I decided I better find out. I took a test that night and we were both a little dumbfounded when it said this...
Isn't it funny, you plan, you try, you pray... and then when the stick actually says it you kinda look at each other like, "How did that happen!?!" We were SO thrilled. The hardest part was waiting the 2 weeks to tell our parents. I was working with my mom at VBS everyday that week and I couldn't look her in the eye, I knew she'd see right through me.

We decided we wanted to wait until Father's Day (June 20th) to tell them just like we had done 4 years ago on Father's Day with Trace. Call me a sucker for tradition, but I just couldn't help it. The difference this time was that we found out literally minutes before telling our parents with Trace. I barely got my hands washed and the toilet flushed after the stick turned "blue" before we were in the car on our way to tell them. But it was so special to get to tell them they were going to be grandfathers for the first time on Father's Day and we wanted to try to wait.

Then we realized Jimmy's parents were going to be out of town that weekend, so we invited them to go eat dinner to "celebrate" early on Thursday and decided unless we were ready to announce it to the entire Longhorn restaurant, we better do it at home before we left... good call!

Jimmy wrote a very sweet card to his dad and talked about what an amazing father he had always been, and what a great grandfather he was to Trace. Then he ran out of room on the front, drew an arrow to the back, and said... "so we thought you might like to do it again!"

That was only the second time in the 8 years I've known Jim that I actually saw him speechless!
My parents, Kadi and Andy came over for Father's Day dinner. That was the LONGEST dinner of my life! After we ate and in between putts on the final day of the US Open I ran to the potty to tickle on the stick (it's tradition). I wrapped it in the tri-fold card for dad and gave it to him during a commercial break. He nearly didn't open the card because he said he couldn't read it in front of everyone, so I lied and said there was a gift certificate in there (with just a little bit of tee-tee on it... hee-hee!)
I had warned Jimmy to cover Trace's ears, because the last time this happened a particular 4- letter-word came flying out as he burst into tears. Luckily this time... it was just the tears.

Trace had no idea what that thing was in his hand, but he knew it was making quite a commotion.

I'd say the 2 week wait was worth it!

We decided not to tell Trace until we were a little farther along. But, boy did I underestimate the listening powers of a 3-year-old. Jimmy and I thought we were kinda talking in "code" around him until one day he walks up to me, points to my stomach, and says, "Mommy, there's a baby in your belly!" OK, maybe it's time to learn pig latin!

I am coming to the end of my 1st trimester and overall I really can't complain. I've been really tired, but luckily Trace still naps so we've been big napping buddies lately. His bed is by far the most comfortable in the house, and I've loved all the snuggle time I've gotten with him. It makes me sad that there won't be nearly as much time for that once the baby gets here.

I've been nauseated quite a bit but nothing like what I've heard other people go through. I'm happiest when I'm eating, and am constantly thinking about my next meal (not that unusual from my non- pregnancy state.) I am fatter than mud, and can't button half of my clothes already. I started showing IMMEDIATELY and am a little fearful of just what I'll look like come February if I continue on this rate. ha! Before our first ultrasound, Jimmy had some concerns about just how many were in there. I've already had to "graduate" a few sizes up and am trying not to have to buy maternity yet, but baby #2 is making it's appearance a whole lot faster than the first.

I'm due on February 11th, 4 days after Trace turns 4. Trace's b-day is 2-7-07 and this one is due 2-11-11... we will see!

I hope I haven't bored you to tears, but this somewhat serves as my Baby/Belly book, so for memory purposes, I will probably be putting a lot of stuff on here you may not care about (or could have done without knowing!)

We are so thrilled and feel blessed beyond words... please pray for our little miracle!







6 comments:

Jen said...

I am sooooo excited for you!!! I didn't get teary until I saw the Gary & Judy photos!! I love that they're still the same & just love both sets of grandparents your babies have!! They are so special and I know they love Trace (& now baby #2) as much as my parents love Miller! It is a blessing! I can't believe you made it that long & didn't spill the beans, but it was worth the wait! I didn't get to do the "commotion stick" because none of mine would turn blue or give a plus sign (and they didn't have the high-tech pregnancy screen like you have here!) Maybe next time!! I shared the wonderful news tonight with Mom and Dad and said I couldn't believe your Dad did not have it out on his sign yet...Mom said, "He probably will tomorrow now that she put in on FB!!" :) They send their congratulations, as well! The only thing missing from your precious post is a picture of you with your NOT FAT AS MUD baby belly!! Get on it, Heidi!! Much love & many prayers to you for a healthy, happy pregnancy! (Cool about the birth dates, too!)

Jane said...

Love the pictures.....they are indeed priceless...and as we've already said many times....we're so happy for all of you....can't wait until February!!!!

Amanda O'Rear said...

I am so happy for you guys and loved reading about your sharing the news with family. How wonderful!
It is totally normal to be bigger with baby #2...your body has done this before...so it just pops on out there.
Congrats...I look forward to reading about your journey with baby #2. Yay!!! Nothing sweeter than our babies...

Trinity said...

Yay! I didn't know you were seeing the high risk docs. that's not fun- I don't like that place! but I want to hear about which doc you saw. can't wait to meet Cofer baby #2. (oh, and I am thinking girl this time.)

Claire said...

Congratulations!!! So excited for your family. Loved the photos of all of the surprised grandparents.

Andi said...

Man...although I've known reading your blog just made me cry my eyes out...especially seeing Gary with tears in his eyes too.
And I must say that 2/11/11 would make just the most awesome birthday for GG # well lord, who knows but I'm certain SHE will be a GG, or at least I know there is about 4 sets of hands keeping their fingers crossed!
So happy for you all, not happy enough to share this one with you, but so incredibly happy and praying for you guys!!
love always!
Andi